Looking for true love!

Yesterday I had a chance to watch this wierd movie, 'Lake House'..although however I tried solving the time tunnel concept I could not apprehend what the movie had to offer. Except that it was mind challenging and interesting in a way..I kept glued till the end just to find out the meaning of true calling of love. Again today I watched another movie on the same topic, however different in layout and concept it revolved around the same enigma of falling for your true love just like that and remaining so for years to come.Very idealistic and romantic to fantasize some thing likethat to happen to us but hello have we ever thought about the consequences of finding out many disturbing facets to your loved one later on when the dream phase fazes out and reality dawns.They say love is blind..true for many that meansif you know a person inside out nothing else matters. What has to be beautiful and appealing is the inside of a person. I know in our youth we tend to be physically attracted to the outer or exterior personality..the looks matter more..the physical attraction blinds us to the dark sinister side of that person. Infact we forget to analyze whats beneath the surface. we dont take time to read that persons inner feelings, sensitivities, likes dislikes,habits, back ground. You know once we are fully involved in a relationship we start to realize that the person we assume to be completely bonkers for is not the right one but then its too late. Dont you think it would be better if we take time to see both sides of a person..to know if he or she matches with ourpersonality.I know people say opposites attract but thats physical attraction which will fade out with years and then what?? you will find you have nothing in common. he puts one track and you abhor that song. he puts off the light because he hates reading and you are an addict. he loves children and you dislike having them right away. There are so many examples of pld aged couples in our families who suddenly when left alone after their children move out are at their partners necks for small things because they are not suited to each other or as they say opposites in nature. One wants to stay home all day the other loves out door activities. One loves eating out the other hates it. so on and so forth.The only thing that bondsthat love is the companionship bond. I hate to say that its a wrong and childish fallacy when at a latter stage of your married life suddenly you feel the urge to find your soul mate. thats all a crap again because it involves many lives by then your childrens and husband or wifes.So what to do if you feel trapped in such a situation?? I advise find yourself. give space to yourself and your partner. make friends or widen your circle. Explore hobbies..love life as if it was your last day...and most importantly find positives in the person you have spent your life with. Disregard all the negatives and love him or her as your true companion. love what he or she loves and ask them to do the same.like one day watch the movie they like or listen to the track they love or dont read any thing at all if they feel like upto it and vice a versa. Thats called as compromising and I tell you true love will come to you. not from some where else but right from your own house..from your companion. What is true love??? is it momentary passion or a steadfast loyalty?? is it goo goo eyed pink haze???No! true love is being with some one who cares and provides no matter what and raises your family and sacrifices and remains loyal to you. Yes if we try to see a person before hand and seek the right personality completely suited to us it would be ideal. but the give time before plunging into a relationship other wise if its too late then seek the love within your partner or teach them . I assure you the exercise will not be futile..it will bear fruit! Heres to True love!